Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Emotional Dependency

“Build. Create. Live well, laugh often, love much. It needn’t be a fight all the time.”


Whenever you hear the word “dependency,” most of us think in terms of some form of addiction or disease. It tends to imply something that should be avoided, fixed, or terminated. Most individuals with dependencies are those with addictive personalities, and thus rely on others to meet their needs and fulfill their responsibilities. Not the type of person you want to be in a relationship with, or aspire to become.
Relationships are place to create the life you want. Ask yourself what it is you want from life, from your relationship? 
Ratio for healthy relationship is 5:1- five positive and good things done for every one negative thing
"Sometimes love blinds us, other times it let’s us see."
The more we feel in control, the happier we will be. Not in the sense of being in control of situations or other people, but rather in control of ourself.
We come close to someone not with an idea to become emotionally weak or to weaken the other person but to strengthen the bond which we wish to share with them because together we can face any challenge, any obstacle placed in front of us by life....


So sometimes its good to be emotionally dependent on someone you trust who understand you and stand by you silently in ur good and bad days 

New Year Resolution


New Year resolutions

So here comes the most awaited day for the people to celebrate. I truly don't find anything special about this day except roaming around and partying alongside friends which for me, is like spending every weekend. The truth is that from this day onward, nothing gonna change, If life sucked last year, its pretty much going to be the same case unless you take a stand on your own. The day is never gonna have any effect.
By the way, I feel deviated from the title of this post, people take resolution and I have few suggestions:
1. Be observant.
2. Never let any idea go uncaptured.
3. Try to learn something from the people you meet.
4. Take a book or magazine wherever you go.
5. Spend as much time as you can with your loved ones.
6. Meditate
7. Take time to reflect on your day. What have you done right? What have you done wrong? What can you do to improve yourself?

Atleast at first I plan to work on this. Today is Jan 4, and I am fed up with all of this.

Now, I say screw them, just have fun, be passionate about life and just be awesome always…true story ;)!!