Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Emotional Dependency

“Build. Create. Live well, laugh often, love much. It needn’t be a fight all the time.”


Whenever you hear the word “dependency,” most of us think in terms of some form of addiction or disease. It tends to imply something that should be avoided, fixed, or terminated. Most individuals with dependencies are those with addictive personalities, and thus rely on others to meet their needs and fulfill their responsibilities. Not the type of person you want to be in a relationship with, or aspire to become.
Relationships are place to create the life you want. Ask yourself what it is you want from life, from your relationship? 
Ratio for healthy relationship is 5:1- five positive and good things done for every one negative thing
"Sometimes love blinds us, other times it let’s us see."
The more we feel in control, the happier we will be. Not in the sense of being in control of situations or other people, but rather in control of ourself.
We come close to someone not with an idea to become emotionally weak or to weaken the other person but to strengthen the bond which we wish to share with them because together we can face any challenge, any obstacle placed in front of us by life....


So sometimes its good to be emotionally dependent on someone you trust who understand you and stand by you silently in ur good and bad days 

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